My girlfriend spends the weekend with me often, and we do all chores together. This Saturday, I was doing laundry when I saw her panties

My girlfriend spends the weekend with me often, and we do all chores together. This Saturday, I was doing laundry when I saw her panties among the clothes, so I put them aside and washed the rest. Now she’s calling me a red flag because I didn’t wash her panties.

My concern was what other tenants would say, but she thinks in the future I won’t do it for her when she’s incapacitated. That has been our fight for the past few days. If we were living alone without the judging eyes of others, I would have done it without thinking twice, but this place and the gossip won’t allow me to do it.

She insists I do it to future-proof our relationship; wash her ‘dross’ in the open and hang them for all to see that I’ve washed her panties. How does that even make sense? But that has been her request. If I don’t do it, she’s not coming around to do anything for me.